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I am Alasan Abel, a trained Geologist with a natural talent and passion to write. My blog is a reflection of my views about Life, Relationships and Emotional tricks that the mind lays on our laps to explore. I can be an extrovert, a good listener and introvert at the same time. Some say am mischievous with words but not naughty. I love nature and creativity. I would love to read from you or we can work together alasanabel@gmail.com. Do follow me on twitter @get2abel and lets explore this fantastic universe with our bare minds!

And yes, i offer free counselling on relationships too! So hit me up

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